Sunday, November 30, 2008

What they don't ask of us


  1. They don't ask us to name them.
  2. They don't ask us to worry about them.
  3. They don't ask us to feed them.
  4. They don't ask us to miss them.
  5. They don't ask us to unconditionally nor conditionally love them.
  6. They don't ask us to grieve them when they die.
  7. They don't ask us to bury them.
  8. They don't ask us for memorial markers to be planted on their burial plot.

A lot of us do this anyway, for our domestic pets and the occasional stray or wild friend. (Remembering KeenYee's blog on his colleague's mishap with a bird)

I don't believe in fairy tales, I don't believe in the so-called "Rainbow Bridge", nor do I believe that we compromise - at least for strays and wild animals - anything but entirely optional encounters in their lives. And I do believe that we humans are the fortunate ones when our paths cross with theirs, however, if only for brief moments. That is why we should remember our fortunate lives and treat them with a lil' compassion and care, more so especially when we encounter the distressed ones.

I remembered having read a poem "The Heaven Of Animals" http://www.poetryoutloud.org/poems/poem.html?id=171425 by James Dickey and did not agree about the part that animals having no souls. I believe, that far from being soulless, they are the essence of soul on this planet. Thus, I chose to drop the words "no soul" and replace it with "fine souls".

To the little stray that I encountered outside my home early this morning, I pray and hope our future moments together will not be brief and uneventful, but be mutually satisfactory ones, just as with the other lil' friends under my care.

And you do not have to ask, my new little-furried-friend, for I will gladly perform.

19 comments:

Fable Frog said...

your dog ah? looked like scrappy

.:: Ant ::. said...

Fable ~ Yup, He's the odd looking one. His 6 other siblings are perfect-looking miniature pinschers. I chose to keep him over the others coz he DID remind me of Scrappy too :)

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yamuna, yogini said...

That's the joy of coming home every night..no bad mood, just wringling the tail as hard as possible.

[SK] said...

they don't asked, but seems like we did those all for them.. :p

.:: Ant ::. said...

Yogini ~ The joy is also in the morning when they wait outside my bedroom door. :)

Sk ~ precisely! :)

Thanks for dropping-by and have a wonderful week ya! ^_^

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Live2Talk said...

The little doggie is so fortunate to have a loving owner like you =^_^=

Takashi said...

i think pets asked to be fed.. not in vocal words, but in other ways that u know they are asking :)

im sure u know better den me cos i never had a pet in my whole life..

and thanks for dropping by =)

joshua said...

Aww... more people need to love animals the way you do!

*clap clap*

K|E|E|N|Y|E|E said...

Lovely dog you have. :)

Silly Little Prince said...

i miss my dog everyday. he's been gone for 10 years now.

.:: Ant ::. said...

Live ~ I think I'm more blessed to have them :)

Takashi ~ true also. But not in my home, as they have specific times for food. :)Strays and wild one don't ask to be fed tho'.Somehow they just know that we humans do.Thanks for ur visit. 1st time right?

Joshua ~ Awwww thanks. There are many better peeps out there. Hats off to the volunteers ar RSPCA. :)
Thanks for ur visit.

KeenYee ~ Thanks. Our next makan should be in Klang then, so you cld meet my precious ones. :)

Prince ~ I understand. 10years? Gosh, you must be such a loving person. Need more peeps like you too! :) Btw, best remedy is to get another one to love. hehe Thnaks for ur 1st visit. Errr, A prince sldnt be so low profiled. :P

Have a great Monday folks! ^_^

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Takashi said...

yea.. first timer..

^_^ shy shy.

AJ v2 said...

nice to have pets around.... =)

Medie007 said...

:P don keep any pets... only have cactus..


ooo that reminds me... i need to check them out! i bet they're dead...

.:: Ant ::. said...

Takashi ~ sure meh??? keke

AJ ~ agreed! unconditional love from them is so comforting. Thanks for visiting :)

Medie ~ ouch, real pity if a cactus could oso die under ur care! haha :)

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Twilight Zone said...

I often compare my friends with dogs coz I told them dogs are more loyal and obedient. They never betray their masters too. Twilight and his firelava mouth as usual.

I like this topic of yours. Anything that makes me think after reading is good! Keep coming Anton.

.:: Ant ::. said...

Twilight ~ Thanks dude. Keep coming too. :)

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Precious Pea said...

I disagree with point no. 3. My Pumpkin (the Pekingnese) barks at me furiously every night at 8p.m. and lead me to kitchen cos it's his dinner time. Who said they don't ask??

.:: Ant ::. said...

Precious ~ "ask" is not from a literal sense. The approach to the meaning is related to how we human beings have taken to the task of making it our responsibility; whether out of a sense of duty, or compassion or any other reason. ^_^

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